Twilight In The Garden
Are Women Responsible For The Fall of Man?
Or perhaps Adam was just a SAM.
A SAM is a weak man who simply goes with the flow. He has no
backbone, no leadership potential, and is concerned only about
his individual needs. SAMs are men that never initiate anything;
they just go along with whatever someone else initiates. They
never plan a trip, make reservations for dinner, or surprise
their wives with a picnic in the park on a sunny day. And by the
way, the acronym, SAM, stands for “Sorry_Man.” Oops, there goes
the ghetto in me. I'm just keepin' it real y'all.
The average Sunday school student has read Genesis and knows
that Adam was right there when Eve ate the fruit (Genesis 3:6).
But when Eve handed the fruit to Adam, he did not respond, he
did not correct her, he did not flee the situation, and he did
not say no, he simply ate. So how could Paul imply that Adam was
not deceived but stipulate Eve brought sin into the world while
Adam remains somehow blameless? “For Adam was formed first, then
Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived,
fell into transgression”. So there it is. It all goes back to
Eve. She ate the forbidden fruit, and so everything is her
fault. Not only that, but everyone born since then with the
misfortune to have two X chromosomes has had to bear the brunt
of Eve's mistake. What about Adam?
How could Paul say Adam was not deceived when he is the same guy
who said where Adam brought sin and death into the world, Jesus
brought righteousness and life (Romans 5:15). In Romans 5:14,
Paul declares that Adam disobeyed an explicit commandment of God
and brought sin into the world. Paul implies that Satan lured
Eve into eating the fruit but Adam didn't fall for that, he
simply was hard headed and ate because he wanted to be
disobedient to God. But, remember when God asked Adam if he ate
the fruit, Adam said yes, but it was the woman you gave me who
gave me the fruit. Adam blames Eve while Eve blames the serpent
and admits that it deceived her. If Eve was deceived by Satan
and ate the fruit, but Adam was not deceived, why did he eat?
Adam could have been a hero and a savior for Eve if he had said
no. He could have saved all of humankind and spared Jesus the
agony of dying on the cross, but no, as Paul implicates, Adam
was simply disobedient.
Let's get real folks: Adam was deceived and fell into
transgression. Just like Clinton, he was deceived by his lust
for a woman. Male preachers are constantly getting into trouble
in the church because of lust. Even respected leaders and
preachers like Jesse Jackson have shamefully fallen into sin
chasing skirts.
Because Paul said that Eve was deceived by Satan but Adam was
not, Adam appears somehow blameless in 1 Tim 2:11-14. Here's a
quiz and a review: Where was Adam when Eve ate the fruit?
According to Genesis, Adam was standing right there. Adam and
Eve's eyes were opened together and they sewed fig leaves
together. Therefore, Adam must have heard the same spiel that
Satan told Eve, however he remained silent. Eve dialogued with
Satan while Adam stood idly by saying nothing. That's a SAM for
you. He ate the fruit after Eve handed it to him. Eve ate first
and then Adam. Was Adam waiting to see if Eve would drop dead
first to know whether the fruit was safe or unsafe to eat? If
so, that would certainly confirm his membership in the SAM club:
a coward and wimpy follower instead of spiritual leader. I
believe that Paul said Adam was not deceived because, like many
men, Paul wrote from an androcentric perspective. It's all about
the man being the center of the universe.
Let's pause for a moment and bring in the choir because now I
got to preach.
What many men don't understand is that they are NOT the center
of the universe, GOD IS! Hallelujah for a GOD CENTERED universe,
can I get an AMEN! Paul is looking at Adam and Eve's situation
from an androcentric perspective. He puts Eve in a subordinate
role and claims that she was trying to usurp Adam's authority.
This was not the case. Adam was not the spiritual leader of Eve
in the first place. Eve was a “help meet": an ally to fight the
war against the forces of evil as in Chronicles 28:16. In the
beginning, God made Adam and Eve equal. God meant for Adam and
Eve to rule the earth together. Therefore, Eve cannot take
authority away from Adam because he did not have any authority
over her. However, God did.
Also, if Eve were trying to usurp the authority of Adam, it
doesn't make sense that she would have offered him a bite of the
fruit. Especially if she wanted to have power over Adam, she
would have eaten the fruit and not offered Adam a bite because
her motivation would have been to keep the wisdom and power
exclusively. But now clutch your pearls and hold on to your
hats: Eve was not trying to usurp the authority of Adam, Eve was
trying to usurp the authority of God.
After all, God had and has all the power and authority. Now
here's a revelation: Eve already had power over Adam. Adam was
not her superior, he was her equal. Unfortunately, he also was a
SAM who followed her example like a puppet on a string. If Paul
would have looked at Adam and Eve from a Jehovah-centric
perspective, he would have realized that Eve was trying to
attain the power of the God-head while Adam was likely motivated
by other imperatives.
Okay, I'm done preaching. Choir: have a seat.
Dangerous: In full manic swing, Jackson dangles Blanket.
In case I'm not clear,
Adam had sex on the brain. It is
reasonable to conclude Adam was not thinking about what God
would do to or for him, he was thinking about what Eve could
withhold from him. It was all about sex. Whoever has the power
to withhold sex, has the power and can control the relationship.
Eve had the power over Adam and worked him like silly putty.
Like many men today, Adam's lust for a woman got him in trouble.
Adam's biological imperatives deceived him and made him take a
bite of the forbidden fruit. Like Paul, we often skim over the
sins of men and focus on the women. Remember the woman caught in
the act of adultery and the people were ready to stone her?
Where was the man? Like Adam, he was right there. He may have
been a Pharisee who felt he was above the scrutiny of the law or
was trying to set-up Jesus. But he was right there.
Even our society focuses on the sin of women. For example,
prostitutes are harassed by police and sent to jail while the
“Johns” go free. The “John” will even turn around and have the
audacity to blame the prostitute if he gets an STD (sexually
transmitted disease). Remember that Adam had the gall to blame
God for giving him Eve when God asked him if he ate the fruit.
“Lord, it was that woman you gave me”. His words confirms that
he was not worried about what God would do to him, the one who
had the power to give him life or death, Adam was worried about
getting some. Granted, a prostitute is wrong as two left feet
for indulging in and soliciting sex acts, but society is quick
to throw the hooker into jail rather than the John.
Today, many Christian men blame Eve for the spiritual fall of
mankind. I say that Eve messed up big time, but all Adam had to
do was “Just Say No.” Men cast stones at Eve for being deceived
by Satan and say that Eve was the weaker vessel. If Eve was the
weaker vessel for being deceived by the shrewdest of all the
creatures the Lord God had made, then that makes Adam the
weakest vessel for being deceived by his own biological urges.
Joy O. Banks
15 December 2002
joy@praisenet.org
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