When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. —I Cor 13:11

God can change anybody, he really can. He can change circumstances, he can change people, he can do anything, but what he does not do is force his will on people. If the man in your life is not willing to change, God is not going to force him to treat you right. He’s not going to force him to love you the way you deserve to be loved. God is not a criminal; He will never be charged with “breaking and entering.”

Breaking & Entering
DC RealTalk #3194

 

In order to build something you must have something to build upon. If they show up to the love construction site claiming they want to build love they should have some materials. You should see some tools, some bricks, some mortar, some metal and some equipment so you’ll know they’re serious about it. If they come empty handed and they don’t want to listen to God, What in the world do you think you’re going to do with them?